Yi Slacker & Steve! I just got out of a relationship and I'm hitting the dating scene again. I want to go out and have fun and put my past behind me. Basically, I want to go have a few one night stands. I think it'll be a good way to get my confidence back. My problem is that I've never really had one and I have no idea what to do. What kind of clothes do I wear? Do I act slutty or do I pretend to be innocent. What do I say to the guy in the morning? What kind of things should I look out for? I’m too embarrassed to ask any of my friends for tips. Can you guys help me? - Candy
Slacker says most women end up having a connection with a man even if you didn't want to at the beginning of the night. If you can look at a guy and strictly think about how you would never take him home to your parents, you would never make him a father, then it opens up the pool of guys you have to choose from for a one-night stand. One of Slackers tips is if you really want it to just be a one-night stand, don't do it at your house! Slacker says leave as soon as you wake up.
Steve said there are some women who simply just get theirs. They don't tell everyone about it, and that's perfectly okay. He says Candy needs to be safe and feel safe because it can get sketchy sometimes. He says the longer you go without relations, the easier it is to have a one-night stand.
Have you ever had a one-night stand? What are your tips and advice?