Marissa and her husband have been together for 10 years and married for 8. Recently she just found out that during the first year of their relationship he cheated on her! Should Marissa walk away? Or should she stay and forget about it?
Slacker says that he never broke his vows to her as bad as that sounds. He says that her husband shouldn’t have told her, he should have lived with the guilt and shame till he goes to the grave! Slacker says that it was nine years ago and that long ago with him he was a completely different person. He is wondering if the husband was expecting,her to jump for joy he told the truth?
Steve says it good that it wasn’t an emotional connection and some random hook up because it could have been worse. He says that the guy is a complete idiot for even telling her!
What advice do you have for Marissa?
I think that if he was going to tell her he should have told her right when it happened and not nine years later! Now years of trust and emotions are involved in the situation making everything so much more difficult. In complete honesty, she should try to make the relationship work, you have come this far why not continue.