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OPP: New Life


Today’s OPP comes from Jada, she writes:

Yi! I quit my job yesterday and I feel so scared and liberated at the same time.  I'm scared because I have nothing lined up, but at the same time, I feel like I can do anything.  I'm thinking of moving across the country and starting totally new, but I am also in a long term relationship and I'd hate to leave him behind.  He thinks I should just take a week or two off and let loose with my friends, but I really want more, not just a few weeks of no work.  I will tell you that every time I think about moving I do get extremely nervous.  Do you think I should just leave him and go or is he right?

Slacker thinks that Jada needs to ask herself whether or not she loves this guy. He says that if she’s not 100% committed to this guy, then she should leave him and she will find someone just like him anywhere she goes. On the other hand…why would she start all over and loose the one thing in her life that is right, her boyfriend. Slacker thinks that Jada might just be having this euphoric feeling right now, but then she’ll move and set back into reality.

Steve says he loves starting over, you’re not tied down and you can start anew. His advice for Jada…do it, dump him. He says that if she does leave she has got to leave it all; her job, old life, boyfriend, everything.

Do you think Jada should leave her boyfriend?

I think Jada needs to reevaluate her priorities in life. Ultimately she just wants to be happy, but first she needs to figure out what it is that will make her happy, then she should go for it!

With Love,
Intern Elana

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07/23/2013 5:27PM
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