Yi! I have been married for 10 years. My husband has a close friendship with a female co-worker, who he regularly goes to lunch with. Sometimes he comes home late and says he's been caught in traffic. This has been happening alot as of late. I think he's with her. My friends say I'm paranoid. What do you think? How can I find out if he's doing anything wrong? Are there any signs I should be looking for? I would love to know if any other women have been in my position.
Slacker agrees this is so wide open. Can your man have a woman that’s a friend at work? Can you go to lunch with her? She’s automatically assuming that they are sleeping together…Maybe he’s out buying her Christmas presents. Slacker does agree that men have earned this assumption. His wife has no problem with him going to lunch with co-workers and having sushi, sake or whatever. The other thing that tells Slacker that nothing is going on…Her friends are saying that she’s being paranoid. He’s either really good at hiding it or not doing a thing.
Steve just reminds everyone that they are way past the 7 year itch (now the 5 year itch), so that is
working for her…
What advice do you have for Kendra?
Peace, Love and Good Happiness Stuff! – Ray the Intern