“Yi! My girlfriend's mother keeps flirting with me. I haven't told my girlfriend about the flirting because I know she'd be upset. She and her mother are very competitive and jealous of one
another. If I tell her, her mother will say I'm the one flirting. What do I do?
Today’s OPP is darned if he does darned is he doesn’t. If he does tell and the mom turns on him, Slacker and Steve both agree that the girlfriend probably won’t believe his word over her mother’s.
What advice do you have?
I think he should start with telling the mom to back off. It’s inappropriate and clearly making him uncomfortable. If she doesn’t listen then the only thing he can do is leave the situation all together or tell his girlfriend. He’s clearly not enjoying it so his SO should understand that he’s telling her because it’s a problem and he needs help to make her mother stop.