Today’s OPP is feeling insecure and unsure of their marriage...her husband confessed that he fantasizes about other women when he is with her. Some of her friends say he is essentially cheating while others say she need to spice things up.
“Yi! On Friday night, my husband shocked me when he confessed he fantasizes about other women when he is with me. I couldn't believe it. Is he unhappy with our sex life? Doesn't he like me anymore? Does he find our sex boring? It makes me feel so insecure. Some of my friends say he is essentially cheating while others say I need to spice things up. I have two questions. First, is fantasizing cheating, and second, what would you recommend I do to get my husband to focus on me again? –Candy”
Slacker believes that she should just let it go, put more effort into getting his attention and not be bothered by his imagination.
What advice do you have for her?
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