Amber’s boyfriend is planning to propose tonight with a princess cut diamond ring. But she HATES princess cut diamond rings and is planning to reject the proposal. Her mom says that she is shallow while her best friend say that she isn’t and has every right to say NO because she’s the one, who has to wear the ring. Is she shallow or not? Can she say yes to the proposal but no to the ring? Is an ugly engagement ring grounds for a proposal rejection?
Slacker and Steve think that if she is willing to turn down an engagement because she doesn’t like the ring, then it probably won’t work out. They think that she is being shallow, if you don’t like the ring you can discuss a different cut at a different time and place.
What do you think?
I think she is being rude, her boyfriend who clearly wants to spend the rest of his life with this women, purchased a ring that he thinks that she would like. An engagement isn’t about the ring it is about spending the rest of your life with the person you love. I think that she is being silly if she turns down the engagement, because of the ring that’s not what an engagement is about and the fact that she is even thinking about saying no because of the shape of the ring, clearly he deserves better.